You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great” -Zig Ziglar
One of the most difficult aspects of entrepreneurship is the drive to implement action. What comes naturally to some, is the dream or aspiration to want something more for themselves. However, the thought of taking action toward making those dreams a reality simply paralyzes most.
Now, we can’t escape what is blatantly obvious – true change can only come from action. But why do we cringe at the necessary steps to cross the threshold between dream and reality? What’s holding us back? What’s keeping us from our own success?
I’ll tell you – Fear, Mistrust, and Doubt.
We fear from doing the unknown, failing, or even succeeding. We tend to not trust our own judgment, decision-making, and confidence in our capabilities. We continuously doubt the dreams and visions for ourselves – that they will not come to pass. When we don’t see the Return on Investment (ROI) in our efforts immediately, we go into panic mode and begin to take advice from individuals who don’t want to see us succeed.
Fear, Mistrust, and Doubt are the 3 masked vigilantes that continuously fight against our success. What’s even worse – they’re coming from the very core of ourselves, who is also responsible for taking action toward our dreams.
The sooner we combat our own inner vigilantes, the sooner our dreams and visions can become a reality, working in alignment as an advantage toward our success.
If these 3 masked terrors have been haunting you for however many years, here is what you can do to K.O. them for good!
1. Retrain your mindset to say “NO” to the self-sabotage and self-negativity.
In the midst of trying to redevelop yourself or shift gears to greatness, the screams of fear, mistrust, and doubt seem to be the loudest and the most dominate. At times like these, we may not have the internal strength to encourage ourselves, so it is important to seek positive outlets.
Surround yourself with positive people. Read positive material. Speak positive thoughts to yourself – even if you don’t feel it at the time. Replace the words of “I can’t” with “I won’t”, to then become “I will” and “I can”.
More importantly, remove the individuals around you who are not inspiring you to become better, think better, and grow bigger. Often times these particular individuals are the ones who the closest to us.
In Mark 6 verse 4 NKJV, Jesus said
“A prophet is not without honor except in his own country, among his own relatives, and in his own house.”
Instead of encouragement from them, you may receive the complete opposite. Don’t allow them to deter you from your goals and success. Even if it means for just a little while, separate yourself from them until you are stronger and able to confidently stand with your decision to increase yourself. You must be inspiring to others, but most importantly, you must continually inspire yourself – especially during the hard times.
“Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher” – Oprah Winfrey
2. Celebrate the quick wins.
When concentrating too much on the larger picture, we sometimes don’t celebrate the quick wins. When we don’t celebrate the quick wins, we don’t see progress. When we don’t see progress, those 3 vigilantes come back into our mindset and delude us into believing we’re wasting time. As a result, we quit before we even get started.
Celebrate your quick wins and be proud! Celebrate the 3 out of 10 tasks completed on your to-do list. Celebrate the writing of your first post on your new blog. Celebrate sending out your first mass email to your list on behalf of your new company.
Despite the long journey ahead, these ARE indeed WINS to be celebrated because it means your taking action. Your punching fear, mistrust, and doubt in the face – and that my friend is what it’s all about!
3. Cheer yourself on and welcome prosperity.
You are your own cheerleader. Don’t depend on others to always uplift you but try to get that encouragement from yourself. Build yourself up spiritually, physically, and mentally to prepare yourself for the upcoming prosperity. You have to walk in faith and speak as if your prosperity is already there.
Joel Osteen once said,
“If you want success, if you want wisdom, if you want to be prosperous and healthy, you’re going to have to do more than meditating and believing; you must boldly declare words of faith and victory over yourself and your family.”
By continually combating fear, mistrust, and doubt with these three power moves, nothing will be able to hold you back. You will gain the confidence, boldness, and clarity you need to begin transforming your dreams into realities. Begin to walk in your purpose today. If you need help, ask. If you need to increase your knowledge, take steps toward doing so – today. You owe it to yourself and to the thousands you will inspire along the way.